A hotel stay should be relaxing for everyone, not just the person paying for the room. Yet a survey from Hotels.com suggests that basic courtesy remains one of the biggest factors shaping how guests experience a hotel.
The biggest complaints aren’t complicated: slamming doors, making excessive noise, and treating hotel employees rudely can quickly ruin another guest’s stay.
1. Remember That Other Guests Are Trying to Relax
Hallway conversations, loud televisions, and doors that slam late at night can disturb people trying to sleep. Keep noise down, especially during nighttime hours, and treat shared spaces with consideration.
2. Don’t Treat the Breakfast Buffet Like a Grocery Store
Taking excessive amounts of breakfast food to save for later is one example of hotel etiquette gone wrong. Enjoy what’s offered, but be mindful of other guests and the hotel’s policies.
3. Leave the Room’s Amenities Where They Belong
Some guests take items that aren’t intended as souvenirs. Basic toiletries may be provided for guest use, but reusable property and other hotel equipment should stay behind.
And one hotel habit deserves special attention: never use a room’s coffee maker to wash underwear or other clothing. Coffee equipment is designed for preparing drinks, not personal laundry.
4. Treat Hotel Staff With Respect
Front-desk employees, housekeepers, and restaurant workers help keep a hotel running. A polite request and a little patience can go a long way, even when something goes wrong.
Courtesy matters more than many travelers realize.
5. Ask Before Assuming You Have to Buy Something You Forgot
Forgot your toothbrush, razor, or another basic item? Hotels may have complimentary supplies or other amenities available to borrow or request. Ask the front desk before making an unnecessary purchase.
Interestingly, public displays of affection around hotel pools appear to bother fewer guests than some of these everyday breaches of etiquette.
The smarter take: Being a good hotel guest isn’t about following dozens of complicated rules. It’s about leaving shared spaces clean, keeping noise under control, respecting employees, and remembering that other travelers deserve a comfortable stay, too.

